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the closet Masochist

I had an enlightening conversation with a friend today. I was, once again, ranting about what didn’t work about¬†Vishous‘s book for me. I explained to her his Domination/Submissive sexuality, and how it worked when he was verbally controlling, but not … Continue reading

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is romance soft porn and does it really matter?

I realised I don’t really buy into this debate much because I feel like I’m not educated enough about porn.¬†Like is it pro- or anti-feminist these days? Is it exploitative or empowering? But I think that not knowing what academics … Continue reading

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